Roam with R

Before I discovered the joys of the onsen, and their magical powers are said to cure a variety ailments and skin conditions, I was completely baffled by this custom of strangers stripping down naked to wash their bodies alongside other naked people. My self-consciousness metre has always been off the scale.

During an unusual bout of adventurousness, with a pounding heart, I decided to give it a go and by then end I absolutely loved it. Despite feeling vulnerable in my nakedness, as I entered, three elderly women who were already there, washing, turned around, bowed slightly, and went right back to their washing and onsen-ing.

My fears dissolved.

Form that point, no one looked at me, they were only interested in their own relaxing experience. And so was I! I left with a newfound appreciation for this traditional Japanese experience and always long for the next time I can go back!

What is…

How to


Before you leave your room, put on your yukata, similar to a kimono only more casual, left side over right. I’ve worn it wrong so many times!

How to wear a yukata

You will be provided towels in your room to take with you, a small wash cloth inside a plastic bag and a larger towel to dry yourself off. All onsens are different and provide different items for use in the changing area. Mostly commonly they will provide hair dryers, cotton buds and plastic brushes around the sink areas. If you want to do your nightly routine like taking off your makeup, brushing your teeth or moisturising you may need to bring your toiletries bag with you.

Inside the onsen you’ll find shampoo, conditioner and body wash. If you prefer to use your own bring them along in a shower caddy to make it easy to carry around.

Also, make sure you haven’t been drinking… you will feel unwell very quickly. While some public baths offer alcoholic drinks it’s best to wait till after the bath.

Note: toiletries provided in the onsen can vary so make sure to check beforehand.

in the onsen

  1. Make sure you enter the correct onsen as the genders are separated and alternate during the day and night.
  2. Undress and place your belongings into baskets provided. The only thing you can bring into the onsen area is the small towel to wash.
  3. Wash, wash, wash and do it very well! Find yourself a free spot and take a seat on the small stool. Wash with the small towel and use water collected in the small bucket and pour to rinse. There is also a shower nozzle. But conserve water while you’re doing it.
  4. Rinse off all soap, shampoo and conditioner well before you get into the bath and make sure your area has been rinsed well, ready for the next person.
  5. Use the towel for modesty while walking around the onsen, and be careful, it’s slippery!
  6. Place the towel either on your head or on the side, somewhere it will not touch the bath water.
  7. Enter the water gently and relax!
  8. Once you’re done, squeegie yourself with the little towel before entering the changing room so you don’t drip water everywhere.
  9. Once you’re back in your yukata, take a seat, sip some cold water and take it easy before heading back to your room.

Onsen Etiquette


Some places have an outdoor, as well as indoor, onsen area which you can enjoy as the outside air is cooler. Other places have both hot baths, which is the ‘normal’ onsen, as well as a cold bath that you can switch between.


The onsen is hot. You’ll find you can’t really stay in there for more than 10-15 mintues (depending on your body) without feeling faint… and it’s best not to let it get that bad! The whole point is to relax and unwind - not to make you ill.

Directly after you get out of the onsen, wipe off excess water before entering the changing room. Dry your hair, moisturise and any other post shower ritual you may have.

There is usually an area where you can sit down and have a cool drink, usually water and is a nice way to end. It is recommended that you don’t do much, physically or mentally, and use the following half hour to continue in relaxation and contemplation.

The issue with tattoos

My experience

The prohibition of tattos was one of the first thing I learnt about onsens. I have a small one on my left rib area and another on my right shoulder blade. Every single blog post I read, and every person I spoke to, said the same. You simply cannot enter if you have a tattoo, even if it’s a small one.

But I haven’t found this to be completely true.

There are certain onsens which explicitly display signs banning people with tattoos, see examples below1. If you happen to have tattoos, be respectful and don’t go to those particular bath houses.

No Tattoos in onsen Signs

The onsens inside ryokans aren’t guarded or monitored and it has been absoluately fine for me to go in. I’ve now been to 5 different onsens with no trouble!

Another option is to book out the private onsens (which most ryokans have) and enjoy the onsen experience all on your own for the allocated time.

A Quick History of Tattoos in Japan

Tattoos — and their attached taboos — have been in Japan for as long as onsens have been popular.

In the 7th century, the first correlation between tattooing and punishment is recorded when the Emperor punished the rebels with a tattoo rather than death. This was meant to punish him with physical and psychological pain alike, as it indelibly marked him as a criminal. By the 17th century, tattoos had become an acceptable form of punishment and were reserved for the very worst criminals. They were usually a combination of patterns and symbols which often implied the places of the crime committed. Those with tattoos were shunned by their families and the general public and refused a place in society.

In the late 1700s, criminals began to cover their tattoos with decorative designs of their own choosing, which brought an end to the use of tattoos as punishment. Herein lies the origin story of the link between organised crime and tattoos. Come the 18th century, decorative tattoos had become a popular art-form, but were eventually outlawed because of their affiliation with crime. Once they were illegal, tattoos were embraced even more by those belonging to the counter culture, most notably by the yakuza (Japanese mafia). To them, tattoos were a physical manifestation of what they stood for: bravery, loyalty and resistance to the law.2

The Yakuza have their own onsens… but you may wish to avoid those 🤔

And now

The Japanese Tourism Agency decided to tackle the issue in the summer of 2015 when they conducted a survey of about 3,800 ryokan throughout the country regarding their approach to allowing tattooed guests. The results weren’t promising: 56 percent said they refuse guests with tattoos, while 31 percent said they do not and 13 percent said they permit entry if the tattoos are covered. The stats show that tourism is on a rapid increase and the JTA is striving for even more — aiming to reach 40 million tourists by 2020. As onsen are a huge pull for foreign visitors, the JTA is trying to encourage these establishments to eschew their no-tattoo policy to make foreigners feel more welcome. Notably, this request did not include allowing Japanese guests with tattoos.2

Tips and tricks

Depending on where you tattoo is located and it’s size:

  • Cover up with skin colour band-aid
  • Cover with the small towel provided
  • Have your back agains the wall if you have a back tattoo
  • Pick the end stall when washing to strategically hide your tattoo

The rules

My onsen Experiences